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How to become a co-parent after divorce

A parent in Pennsylvania who is going through a divorce may have several issues to consider as they continue raising their children. Developing a civil and cooperative relationship with the other parent represents one of the most important parts of a parenting plan. Although the marriage is ending, the relationship as parents will continue, and children do best when they feel part of a functional family even after a divorce.

One social psychologist recommends that divorced parents contemplate some serious questions. When negotiating the terms of a parenting plan, parents should determine how often they will need to communicate and directly interact while raising their children. To limit hostility and develop friendlier habits, the parents should think about their current feelings and find ways to move past old arguments for the sake of their children.

This self reflection includes consideration of how distressing the presence of the other parent will feel when they meet at events like school activities or birthday parties. As well as analyzing these feelings, the parents should acknowledge their current negative behavior patterns and strive to correct them by consciously choosing a positive tone and focusing on the best interests of their children.

A parent who has chosen to initiate a divorce could have many child-related issues to sort through and have approved by a family court. An attorney could offer legal insights about how child support could be calculated, the establishment of joint custody and the negotiation of parenting plans. During negotiations to answer these questions, an attorney might strive to keep conversations focused on solutions and legal obligations to the children.

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